July 06, 2004
advice; things to do
| romance advice to allen, 2 | ||
But humorously, Allen . . . B & B. Breathe and Be yourself. Although it's fun to get intense about a new love interest, don't put too much gravity in it. Don't get too goal oriented. Don't assume a liaison is what you want. Take it step by step, and ask yourself at each step: "Is this really working for me? Is it really still fun?" I know you, my friend. your love of winning can blind you to the big picture. Treat yourself to a big picture snapshot every 20 minutes or so to keep your perspectitve. Look at things, say . . . from the other side of the solar system for a moment. That said, bon chance, mon ami! May the sun's wind be at your back and the moon's gravity at a 34 degree forward angle toward your intentions! |
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